March 31, 2026 • Dale Wallace, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Genesis 11:1–9, Hebrews 10:24–25, Matthew 10:16
AI is changing everything—including how we think, feel, and connect. In this episode, we explore the real risks and redemptive opportunities of artificial intelligence in marriage, and how to stay grounded in biblical wisdom in a rapidly shifting world.
Discussion Questions
- Where are we most tempted to choose convenience over connection?
- Have we ever gone to technology instead of each other for emotional support?
- What guardrails should we put on AI/phone usage in our marriage?
- How can we use tools like AI to be more intentional—not less?
- Who has authority in our lives when we need wisdom—AI, culture, or God?
Resources:
- http://asklyte.ai
- https://more-than-roommates.vercel.app/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio
Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)
March 30, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
In this episode we talk to former top model, Jon Passavant, about how to navigate faithfulness in a difficult workplace. When you’re surrounded by people not following Jesus, how do you keep your standards? You won’t want to miss his stories!
How to Worship Jesus with Your Life
March 29, 2026 • John Elmore • Colossians 3:18—4:6
Worship isn’t just something we do on Sundays, it’s how we live every part of our lives. In Colossians 3:18–4:6, Paul shows that when Jesus changes your heart, it shows up in your home, your work, and how you treat people in the world. Real worship looks like honoring Christ in your private life, working like you ultimately answer to Him, and being ready to share the gospel with others.
Make your private life worship for Jesus
Make your professional life worship for Jesus (work for your boss’ boss)
Make your public life worship for Jesus
Life Group Discussion:
In what ways is it easiest for your faith to slip in your private life (home, roommates, family, dating, etc.)? Why do you think that is?
What challenges make it hard to honor Christ in your workplace or school environment?
Can you think of a recent moment where you felt an opportunity to talk about faith but hesitated? What held you back?
Episode 173 - How Lust and Porn Can Destroy Your Marriage
March 24, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, John Elmore • 1 Corinthians 7:1–5, 1 Corinthians 6:18, James 5:16, James 1:4–5
Pornography is one of the most common—and destructive—threats facing marriages today. In this episode, we talk honestly about lust, confession, repentance, and how couples can fight for holiness, healing, and intimacy in their marriage.
Discussion Questions:
- What boundaries do we currently have in place to guard our marriage from sexual temptation? Are they enough?
- What does it look like practically to “make no provision for the flesh” in our home?
- How can we create a culture of confession and grace in our marriage?
- Who are trusted people or community members we can invite into accountability if needed?
Resources
- Freedom Starts Today by John Elmore
- Your Brain on Porn
- Fight the New Drug
- Covenant Eyes
Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)
March 23, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
In this episode we get to speak with best selling author and speaker, Jennie Allen. Her new book “The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe” will help you identify where the enemy has deceived you. Satan has been a liar from the beginning, don’t let his voice win in your life!
Your True Identity
March 22, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Colossians 3:1–17
JP reminded us that our true identity is no longer defined by the world but by Christ, because our old life has died and our new life is hidden with Him. When we exchange our old identity for the one Jesus gives, it changes how we think, how we live, and ultimately who we live for, marking our lives with love, unity, and gratitude.
Your new identity changes how you think
Your new identity changes how you live
Your new identity changes Who you live for
Life Group Discussion:
What are some “earthly things” that most often consume your thoughts, and how can you intentionally shift your mind toward things above?
Which of the qualities in Colossians 3 (compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, love) do you most want God to grow in your life?
Paul had deep gratitude even in suffering, how can remembering your future with Christ help you respond differently to hardship today?
Episode 172- Involving Christian Community in Your Marriage
March 17, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Galatians 6:1–2, 1 Corinthians 15:33, Proverbs 18:1–2, Hebrews 10:23–25
Healthy marriages aren’t built in isolation. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and Andrew talk about why authentic Christian community is essential for a thriving marriage—and why waiting until your marriage is on fire to ask for help is a mistake.
Discussion Questions:
- Who are the people in your life that truly know what’s going on in your marriage?
- What fears keep you from being vulnerable with other couples?
- What is one step you could take this month to deepen community in your marriage?
Resources:
- https://www.harriscreek.org/sermons?sapurl=lytmyzawl2xil21plysyzmt5cmg4p2vtymvkpxrydwumcmvjzw50um91dgu9yxbwlndlyi1hchaubglicmfyes5saxn0jnjly2vudfjvdxrlu2x1zz0lmkj2zjn3amtj
- Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)
March 16, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
In this episode we talk to author, Preston Sprinkle, about his new book “From Genesis to Junia”. Across denominations, there are varying perspectives on what the Bible says about gender roles. Through years of study, Preston gives us insight into what his perspective has become!
Christ is Enough
March 15, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Colossians 2:16–23
So many voices are telling you that you need more, more rules, more experiences, more self-discipline, but the gospel reminds us that Jesus is already enough. Tune down the noise of culture, influencers, and expectations, and get back to the only voice that defines your faith, Jesus Christ.
Don't let legalism judge you
Don't let mysticism distract you
Don't trust asceticism to change you
Life Group Discussion:
Have you ever felt pressure to look like you “have it all together” spiritually? Where do you think that pressure comes from?
Why do you think people sometimes chase spiritual experiences instead of simply pursuing Jesus?
Have you ever tried to change spiritually just by “trying harder” or setting stricter rules for yourself? What happened?
Episode 171 - Habits for Newlyweds
March 10, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • 1 Timothy 4:12, Galatians 6:2, Proverbs 11:14
The early habits you form in marriage don’t just shape your first year — they set the trajectory for decades to come. In this episode, the More than Roommates team unpacks the foundational patterns that help couples build a marriage that doesn’t drift into “roommate mode,” but instead grows into a lifelong flourishing biblical marriage.
Discussion Questions:
- What kind of marriage do we want to “vote for” with our daily habits?
- Are we consistently praying together? If not, what’s stopping us?
- Who has permission to speak into our marriage?
- Is sex something we are proactively nurturing or just hoping works itself out?
- Do we address conflict quickly, or let things simmer?
- Are there boundaries (work, family, schedule) we need to clarify?
Resources:
- Ready or Knot by Scott Kedersha
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
- Married Sex by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta
- Celebration of Sex for Newlyweds by Douglas Rosenau
- https://open.spotify.com/episode/3hykzuvomae03mf9ujporr?si=sgydhyswtlcdjnx4qgiowa
- https://open.spotify.com/episode/0eyjycezppaabdwejydq3d?si=smbtt67-qs2tveposzdneq
- https://open.spotify.com/episode/2b4wt7oqcmazsr5rfxed6q?si=bqsxvplgsbmsc4klehshbq
Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)
March 9, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
In this episode we talk to Jason Woodruff, founder and editor in chief of The Pour Over, about how to handle the news. Some of us probably consume too much news, while others too little. How do we live informed, but not always outraged. This is an important episode for everyone!
Remain in Christ (Abide)
March 8, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Colossians 2:6–15
Real faith isn’t just believing in Jesus once, it’s continuing to walk with Him every day. Don’t chase the counterfeits of the world; Jesus has already paid your debt and proved He is enough.
Continue to live your life in Christ
Don’t be captured by counterfeits
Your charges are canceled. Christ’s work is complete.
Life Group Discussion:
What does it practically look like for you to live with Christ, not just for Christ, in your daily life?
When you’ve felt distant from God in the past, what usually caused the drift?
Do you ever feel like you still must “earn” God’s approval? Why do you think that is?
Episode 170- Ditch the Single Mentality in Your Married Reality
March 3, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, John Elmore • Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4–6, James 4:1, Philippians 2:3, Ephesians 5:29
Many of the tensions and conflicts in marriage don’t come from a lack of love—but from living with a single mindset in a married reality. In this episode, the More Than Roommates team unpacks how autonomy, independence, and unchecked habits quietly undermine oneness—and how Scripture calls us to something better.
Discussion Questions:
1- Where do you most see a single mindset show up in our marriage (time, money, body, tech, decisions)?
2- How can I renew my mind around gratitude for my marriage daily?
3- What’s one practical step we could take this week to move toward greater oneness?
Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?
March 2, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
Break-ups are hard! In this episode we talk about how to handle all of the next steps. Should you reach out to your ex, or ignore them? All of that and more on this episode!
A Life That Has Made Jesus Lord
March 1, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Colossians 1:24–25
Following Jesus isn’t easy, the climb is real, but it’s worth it because the victory is already won in Christ. The mystery we’ve been searching for isn’t success or status; it’s Christ in you, the hope of glory. And when He lives in you, you don’t just endure the journey, you help others grow, knowing one day it will all be worth it.
Expect the sufferings of Christ in you
Experience the mystery of Christ in you
Extend the maturity of Christ through you
Life Group Discussion:
When has following Jesus cost you something socially, professionally, or personally—and how did you respond?
If you truly believed the power of God lives in you, how would that change your confidence, anxiety, or decision-making?
What fears or excuses keep you from sharing Jesus more openly?
Negative Communication Patterns in Marriage
February 24, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Jeremiah 17:9, Philippians 4:8, 1 Peter 3:7, James 1:19, Proverbs 18:13
In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Andrew unpack four common negative communication patterns that can destroy marriages: withdrawing, escalating, negative interpretation, and invalidation. Through honest stories and biblical wisdom, they help couples identify their patterns, slow down conflict, and pursue Christ-honoring communication.
Discussion Questions:
1. Which W.E.N.I. pattern do you most often fall into—and why do you think that is?
2. What does validation look like practically when one of us is emotional?
3. What boundaries or “pause plans” can we agree on before our next conflict?
Resource:
- https://www.reengage.org/blog/talking-is-easy-communication-is-not
Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)
February 23, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
We talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about his own journey to get a healthy mind. Craig experienced work burnout, but found some ways to heal his hurting mind. His insights will help you no matter what season you’re in!
Your Life: By Jesus for Jesus
February 22, 2026 • John Elmore • Colossians 1:15–23
Jesus isn’t just part of your life, He is Lord over all of it: over the universe, over the Church, and over you. If you’ve trusted Him, your life isn’t your own anymore, you were created by Him and bought back for Him. Real freedom begins when you fully surrender.
God the Son Over All
God the Son Over the Church
God the Son Over You
Life Group Discussion:
Where in your life is it easiest to acknowledge Jesus as Lord, and where is it hardest (dating, career, money, image, ambitions)?
What gifts, passions, or abilities might God have given you that you’re currently not using for the Church?
If you truly believed you were bought with a price, what would change this week in your habits, relationships, or decisions?
Episode 168- Balancing Two Busy Jobs in Marriage
February 17, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Colossians 3:23–24, Proverbs 13:12, Matthew 6:21–24, 1 Corinthians 10:31
Busyness with work isn’t just a scheduling problem—it’s often a heart and priority problem that quietly harms marriages. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and unpack how couples with two busy jobs can stay aligned, communicate expectations, and intentionally protect their marriage in demanding seasons.
Discussion Questions:
1- What currently makes our schedules feel most overwhelming, and why?
2- What unspoken expectations do we have about work, availability, or lifestyle?
3- Which priorities might need to be temporarily scaled back to protect our marriage?
4- What would it look like for us to implement daily, weekly, and annual rhythms of connection?
Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working
February 16, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp
In this episode we talk through the major issues young adults have in dating. Are our standards too high? Not high enough? We talk through why things aren’t working and how to fix it!
The Gospel Changes Everything
February 15, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Colossians 1:1–14
The gospel creates a real before-and-after in our lives, changing what people see on the outside through love, hope, and faith. It transforms us on the inside with new strength and confidence that God is for us. And it moves us into a new Kingdom, where we don’t just act better, we live rescued and changed by Jesus.
The Gospel changes the outside
The Gospel changes the inside
The Gospel changes your Kingdom
Life Group Discussion:
Where do you feel like your actions don’t always match what you say you believe?
When life gets hard, what do you usually run to for strength or control?
What would it practically look like this week to live like you belong to a new Kingdom instead of just trying to be a “better person”?
