Episode 89 - Exceeding Your Spouse's Expectations

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Episode 89 - Exceeding Your Spouse's Expectations

More Than Roommates

August 13, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • James 4:1, Proverbs 13:12, 1 Corinthians 7:28, John 16:33, 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss expectations in marriage – where do our expectations come from, what if they’re not met, and how can you exceed your spouse’s expectations? Part 2 in a 2-part mini-series on expectations.

Scriptures:

James 4:1

Proverbs 13:12

1 Corinthians 7:28

John 16:33

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Questions to Discuss:

1. When’s the last time something did not meet your expectations?

2. What are the main sources of your expectations in your marriage?

3. What’s something you can do today to exceed your spouse’s expectations?

Resources:

More Than Roommates – Episode 88 - Who Or What Most Impacts Your Marriage? Part 1 in 2-part series (feat. Ann Daly)

More Than Roommates – Episode 23 – What Did You Expect In Marriage? (Part 1, feat. Jonathan “JP” Pokluda)

More Than Roommates – Episode 24 – What Did You Expect In Marriage? (Part 2, feat. Johnathan “JP” Pokluda)

Episode 95 - Sabbath Rest and Your Marriage

September 24, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Matthew 11:28–30, Exodus 20:8–11, Genesis 2:2–3, Mark 2:23–28

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott talk what the Bible says about rest, the importance of Sabbath rest and your marriage, and reasons why we struggle to Sabbath. Scriptures: Exodus 20:8-11 Genesis 2:2-3 Mark 2:23-28 MT 11:28-30 Resources: Books - https://amzn.to/4ehia5x and https://amzn.to/4eddog4, by John Mark Comer Podcast, More Than Roommates, Episode 62 – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-than-roommates/id1667102563?i=1000642627456 Podcast, More Than Roommates, Episode 82 – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-than-roommates/id1667102563?i=1000660152521 Books – Andy Crouch – https://amzn.to/4ewxz6r and Amy Crouch & Andy Crouch - https://amzn.to/3zzl410 Book - https://amzn.to/4ewfqqx, by Lynne Baab Website – 9 practices - https://www.practicingtheway.org/ Questions to Discuss: 1. How do you and your spouse do with sleep and rest? 2. How often do you and your spouse set aside intentional time for rest? 3. What prevents/keeps you from Sabbath rest? (i.e., pride, trust) 4. What would Sabbath rest make possible in your lives, family, and marriage?

Episode 94 - How To Be A Better Listener In Marriage

September 17, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • 1 Peter 3:7, Romans 12:10, James 1:19, Proverbs 18:2

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss one of the most important skills required for healthy marriages. We discuss why we struggle to be good listeners and what we can do about it. Scriptures: James 1:19 Proverbs 18:2 Romans 12:10 1 Peter 3:7 Questions to Discuss: 1. What are you listening to now (podcasts, audiobook, music)? Share with your significant other. 2. Discuss with your spouse some of the reasons why you struggle to listen well? What are your biggest challenges/obstacles to being a good listener? 3. What’s one step you can take to a better listener in your relationships? Resources: Podcast More Than Roommates – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-than-roommates/id1667102563?i=1000660152521

Episode 93 - Who is Ashley Madison and Why Should You Care?

September 10, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Psalm 32:3–4, 1 John 1:9, James 5:16, 1 Corinthians 6:18, Matthew 10:26

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the Ashley Madison scandal and how to fight temptations in your marriage. We want you to be more than roommates and to fight for your marriage as you guard against the enemy who seeks to destroy you and your marriage. Scriptures: MT 10:26 Rom 2:16 1 Cor 4:5 PS 32:3-4 James 4:1 MT 5:27-30 1 Cor 7:28 1 John 1:9 James 5:16 Ephesians 4:26-27 1 Cor 6:18 PR 28:13 Resources: Podcast – More Than Roommates, Episode 70 – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-than-roommates/id1667102563?i=1000651164542 Questions to Discuss: 1. What’s a courageous step you can take in your marriage today to help strengthen it against the threat of temptations? 2. Discuss with your spouse the things that tempt you. How can you help each other in this battle? How can you prayer for each other? 3. This is a scary prayer, but would you be willing to pray for God to mercifully expose any sin in your life and in your marriage?