The Bible has basically one thing to say about complaining—don’t do it! You say, “If you had my problems, you would complain too.” If that’s how you feel, read on: “Do all things without complaining” (Philippians 2:14 NKJV).
Here’s why: (1) Complaining usually makes things worse. The cycle goes like this. You have a problem, so you complain and stay stuck. You feel bad, so you complain even more and end up with stress, but not a solution.
(2) Complaining won’t get you where you need to go. Instead of committing the situation to God, you’re doubting His wisdom and provision.
Thousands of Israelites died in the wilderness for doing that. Paul wrote, “Do not grumble, as some…did—and were killed…These things…were written down as warnings for us” (1 Corinthians 10:10-11 NIV). When you overlook your blessings and dwell on your problems, you lose your joy.
(3) Complaining can lead to stress-related illness. “A calm and undisturbed mind and heart are the life and health of the body” (Proverbs 14:30 AMPC). Be honest; how many “calm and undisturbed” complainers do you know? Instead of complaining, start counting your blessings. Author Barbara Johnson gave us this tongue-in-cheek example. “A hand-lettered sign nailed to a telephone pole read: ‘LOST…three-legged dog, blind in left eye, missing top of right ear, recently castrated…answers to the name of Lucky.’”
As a redeemed child of God, luck has nothing to do with it—you’re blessed! So the word for you today is: “In everything [not necessarily for everything, but in everything] give thanks; for this is the will of God…for you.”
Complaining Doesn’t Help
“In everything give thanks.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 NKJV
July 24, 2017 • Bob Gass
Spend Time Alone With God
July 31, 2017 • Bob Gass
God can speak to you anytime, anywhere, through anybody, by dropping a thought into your mind (see 1 Corinthians 2:16). But because that thought can be crowded out by busyness, He says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” In stillness you can hear God more clearly. “Jesus used many…illustrations to teach the people as much as they could understand…but afterward, when he was alone with his disciples, he explained everything to them” (Mark 4:33-34 NLT). In High Call, High Privilege, Gail MacDonald wrote, “The ancient desert fathers used to commit themselves to a disciplinary creed: silence, solitude, and inner peace. Only after adequate amounts of time listening, did they consider themselves ready to speak…Today there’s a strange logic that spiritual resource and renewal are found in constantly seeking new voices, attending more meetings…to exchange half-thought-out opinions… We fall into the trap of believing God is most pleased when we’ve maximized our information, our schedules, and our relationships. Disengagement means silence before God…a time of heavenly discussion during which we listen more than we speak. And silence demands solitude.” In waiting quietly before God, your spiritual ear is trained to know His voice. Sylvia Gunter wrote, “I understand why David had to command his soul to be still…Being quiet is difficult…almost impossible for some of us. But I’ve discovered that my soul and spirit have been starving for stillness for a long time, and now that I’ve given my soul a taste of stillness again it will not be satisfied unless it’s a regular part of my day.”
When Jesus Prayed (5)
July 30, 2017 • Bob Gass
(6) Jesus prayed before He faced the greatest crisis in His life. The Bible says, “Jesus went out as usual to the Mount of Olives, and his disciples followed him. On reaching the place…He withdrew about a stone’s throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, ‘Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.’ An angel from heaven appeared…and strengthened him” (vv. 39-43 NIV). Jesus didn’t wait until the hour of His greatest crisis before He prayed. For three-and-a-half years during His earthly ministry, He had built a life of prayer. Before He raised Lazarus from the dead, “Jesus looked up and said, ‘Father, I thank you that you have heard me…that you always hear me’” (John 11:41-42 NIV). Jesus had such an intimate relationship with His Father that in times of pressure and pain He could go to God, confident He would receive His sustaining grace. Can you do that? Until you do, you’ll be vulnerable to people and situations beyond your control. Consider this question: do you think Jesus prayed so much because He wanted to or because He thought He should? The answer is—He wanted to! And if you want to follow in His footsteps and enjoy God’s richest blessings, you need to move from “should” to “want to.” Here’s a truth that people who pray know: the less you pray, the less you want to pray. And the more you pray, the more you want to pray. The power behind Christ’s amazing success in life was the power of prayer. Starting now, commit to praying each day.
When Jesus Prayed (4)
July 29, 2017 • Bob Gass
(5) Jesus prayed when He was concerned about the people He loved. He told Peter, “Satan has asked to sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you…that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.” And Peter did turn back. The disciple who denied his Lord in a moment of weakness eventually stood before a crowd of thousands and preached the gospel to them, and three thousand were won to Christ. Jesus not only taught His disciples, He warned them of danger. But ultimately He realized that the greatest thing He could do was pray for them. Unfortunately, that’s a truth we tend to arrive at later rather than sooner. We promise, we rescue, we threaten, and only when all our other efforts have failed do we pray. Prayer shouldn’t be your last resort, it should be your first response. Prayer takes the situation out of your hands and puts it into God’s. Do you remember the four men who carried their sick friend and laid him at the feet of Jesus? (see Mark 2:3-5). That’s what you do when you pray for someone. It’s not easy to pick up the weight of another person and carry them to God each day in prayer. But it’s the most effective thing you can do for them. The old-timers used to say, “Prayer moves the hand that moves the world.” And they were right! When a loved one disappoints or wounds you, instead of lashing out, lift them up in prayer. Invite God into the situation, then stand back and allow Him to work.