Twice Abraham lied about his wife being his sister.
Once in Egypt w/Pharoah and the other in Gerar with Abimelech.
Both times he operated out of:
Self-preservation over faithfulness.
Fear of man over fear of God.
In this second instance, we get to see into the mind of why Abraham did it.
Abe was in a new land and didn’t want to get killed.
Vs 11 - “Abraham replied, ‘I said to myself, ‘There is surely no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.’”
Fear is about a past or present threat.
Anxiety is about a future threat - specifically, the loss of control.
He projected powerlessness into the future.
This caused him to make a stupid decision (give his wife to another man).
And it also led him to believe his own lie:
Vs 12 - “Besides, she really is my sister, the daughter of my father though not of my mother; and she became my wife.”
He justified how she “really was” his sister.
What should he have done?
Philippians 4:6 - “Don’t be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests to God…”
King David did this when he felt anxious:
Psalms 6:2-3a - “Have mercy on me, Lord, for I am faint; heal me, Lord, for my bones are in agony. My soul is in deep anguish…”
Because of his thoughts, his body literally hurt.
So he took his petition to God and prayed about it…
Vs 9-10 - “The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer. All my enemies will be overwhelmed with shame and anguish; they will turn back and suddenly be put to shame.”
He got through it by projecting power into the future.