One of the fruits of the Spirit is patience. Paul said that he rejoiced in his tribulations because it produced patience. God didn't create us to be like an impulsive bull in a china shop.
Patience
Family Time Ep 134
Angus Buchan
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Born again
John 3:3–4, John 3:7
John 3:3-4, 7. Unless a person is born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God. This means that our lives need to change based on a decision we make to believe in and follow Jesus. It is a 180 degree turn in the opposite direction from where we were going. There needs to be change.